Waiting In Vain
Something tells me my patience will be tried way more than this.
So I'm like, get used to it sister.
I'm over here thinking about spicy food, castor oil, sex (who isn't?), nipple twisting (who is?), walking, primrose oil, relaxation techniques, hypnosis, yogic squats (goddess pose), pressure points, and whatever else I can possibly find in my research of how to start a labor.
Now unless the doctor is waving Pitocin at me 1-2 weeks after my due date, why am I trying to rush this poor baby? Already telling it to hurry up, let's get going.
Not how I want to start this relationship. It's just that I'm so excited. Not only to see how things turn out, know the sex, but to know this child. The suspense has been killing me for almost 10 months,
carrying this kicking and punching bundle and wondering.
I'm just so damn ready. On every level. So excited too.
And would just straight up like to get this show on the road because my back hurts and also my pelvis and pubic bone. And I just get so dang tired.
But more than anything, I'm tired of holding my baby in uterus. I'm anxious to hold her/him in arms.
|Very attractive picture Will took the other night. Bigger than a boat.|
BUT it's not up to me, is it? Life and God and baby choose
when and where the whole thing goes down.
My first big act of parental surrender is now. And now is the only time to do it.
So while I'm doing this or that, mind in the future, waiting on my baby and body to do something, I'm missing all these pre-mommy seconds. Spending time with my husband alone, smiling at and loving on my dog, reading and writing. All things I could be giving over my presence to
instead of wondering, waiting and wishing.
Like I said, not how I want to start off this relationship.
No more "Hurry up! You're going to be late."
"Whenever you're ready, baby. There is a right time, and you know it." As I take a deep breath, feel my body from the inside, and enjoy this beautiful day, this beautiful moment.
It will happen in its own perfect time. No more waiting in vain.
The most challenging time to stay present is now.
"Concentrate all your thoughts on the task at hand. The sun's rays do not burn until brought to a focus."
-Alexander Graham Bell